Hi. ...How are you?....
I'm fine. I'm sleepy.
What? I can't hear you there's like, distortion...
Oh I just said I wanted to see how you were doing.
I'm fine, Julian.
And I know you didnt do anything wrong. I understand why you didn't want to bring it up and all that. I mean that's all, you can go if you need to, you don't have to stay on...
I want to. Your opinion matters to me. And thank you for saying that but, I did some things wrong. I've been thinking about this a lot, when I should be thinking about my other clients--
And I know you're busy with everything too--
Thank you for saying that, but I meant, I've been thinking about transference and countertransference and all of that and, I don't think the recommended way to deal with it is right, but, I just, I didn't how to deal with it. And I'm not sure how, what the best way to deal with it is....
I'm sorry about all those e-mails.
Scarlet, I promise you. Besides maybe you, not a soul was hurt by those e-mails. And, honestly, they made me feel good and, they're quite brilliant. And I understand the depths of your emotions, the impulse to write the e-mails, though mine weren't quite as poetic as yours-- I wanted to-- and I've been there.
So you've had it? This unrequited love disease?
So you know how much it hurts? And that it won't just go away?
My god, yes. It's been 10 years later and it still hasn't gone away. It's gotten better. But I haven't stopped thinking about it.
So great, so, this will still hurt in 10 years and forever?
Well god I HOPE it gets better after 10 years... See, I was kind of shunned. And I thought that maybe the opportunity to talk through it, with you, might be really helpful, might be really better for you, than my experience was.
Yeah. So 10 years ago, so it was right before you married your wife?
Shortly before, yes.
I'm sad, J. Do you have to go?
I have some time.
I'm sorry for ruining Lolita...
(laugh) You didn't ruin Lolita for me.
I don't know how I'll get through the next 5 days.
I have a cancellation Monday, would you like to take that instead of Tuesday?
If you want you can call my phone tomorrow, I'll be in court and probably won't get out til 8 but I might get out earlier, but we can talk after then if you want, and on the weekend, just e-mail me so I can see it if I'm remote--
I don't want to trouble you on the weekends--
I appreciate that, but if you need to talk to me I am available.